REMINDERS FOR THE RING
- Kayla Sails
- Apr 29
- 2 min read
One Message, Three Perspectives
At Icarus Equestrian, we believe the horse show experience should be about more than just ribbons and results. It’s about how we show up - as riders, as parents, as adult amateurs - and what we carry with us long after the final round.
That’s why we created “Reminders for the Ring” - a set of reflections written to support the people who make show days possible. It’s not a how-to guide or a rulebook. It’s a quiet nudge. A breath before the buzzer. A reminder of why we’re really here.
Whether you’re walking a course, standing at the in-gate, or sitting in the bleachers waiting to record a round, these pieces are written with you in mind.
What You’ll Find Inside:
A message for young riders, to remind them how brave they are for showing up, even on the hard days.
A message for parents, to acknowledge everything they do - often without recognition - and the impact they have that lasts far beyond the show ring.
A message for adult amateurs, who juggle real life with real goals and keep riding because the passion still matters.
Each message is meant to be read like a personal note. One that encourages grace, grit, and perspective.
How to Use It
Read it in the truck on the way to the show. Tape a copy inside your tack locker. Share it with a barn mate, a child or a parent who could use the reminder.
You can view it online or download the PDF version below.
Want More Show Day Support?
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